Indira Nagar Arya Samaj is absolutely non co-operative. Specially Mata Ji ( I dont remember her name). They ve their own rule that if you want to get married you need to ve both side of family members pesent then only marriage can be solemnized which males no sense in the case when two adults want to get married. In the time when we talk about moving up from caste,creed etc we talk about these things....If parents have no objection we had no reason to approach them.